The Infinite Starr

mindset shift

  • The Garden, The Grave, and the Shovel

    Some people swear life happened to them. No. Sometimes life handed you a shovel and quietly stepped back to see what kind of person you really were. That is the part nobody wants to talk about. Because when somebody hands you a shovel, there are a thousand things you could build with it. You could…

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  • The Head of the Table

    I’m okay when some people hate me. Matter of fact, hate me if you must. Please. I highly encourage it if that’s the best use of your energy. I don’t spend a whole lot of time trying to change minds that already built a home inside their own bitterness. If someone wakes up in the…

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  • The Ghost at the Table

    People make choices in their own lives. That is the part everybody wants to dance around like accountability is some kind of haunted mirror they are scared to look into too long. But let’s be honest. You knew from the beginning something was off. That is why you watched me your whole life. Closely. People…

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  • The Day the Noise Stopped Working

    There is a strange silence that happens when there is finally nothing left to bitch at. Not because life became perfect.Not because every problem vanished into some magical sunrise bullshit.But because one ordinary day you realize you are no longer emotionally available for your own suffering. You are not mad.Not sad.Not overly excited either. You…

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  • The People Who Set Themselves on Fire and Call It Warmth

    There is a strange kind of peace that happens when you finally become grateful for your own life. Not performative grateful.Not “post a quote over a sunset” grateful.I mean real grateful. The kind where you wake up and your nervous system is not in a cage match with your mind before your feet hit the…

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  • The Weight Room at the Funeral

    What you do with your body every day is a message to your mind about who you are. Not your affirmations. Not your Pinterest board. Not your “new month new me” speech typed out at 2:14 a.m. while eating shredded cheese over the sink like a rat with unresolved trauma. Your body knows the truth…

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  • The Slow Burn of the Entitled

    There is something almost poetic about watching entitled people meet consequences. Not dramatic consequences. Not lightning bolts from the sky. Not some cinematic downfall where violins start playing while they fall to their knees in a grocery store parking lot screaming into the void. No. Real consequences are quieter than that. They arrive slow. They…

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  • I Don’t Run With Wolves—I Am the Silence They Hear Coming

    People run in packs because they don’t feel safe alone. I run alone because I don’t feel safe in packs. That difference right there…that’s not preference.That’s experience. See, people love to romanticize loyalty until they’ve been circled by it.Until they realize some packs don’t protect…they position.They don’t surround you to keep you safe.They surround you…

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  • Took You Long Enough (Said Your Future Self, Rolling Its Eyes)

    You ever notice how the loudest motivational speaker in your life… is also the one avoiding their own life like it’s a group project they forgot about? Yeah. That’s you. Standing there. Chest puffed out. Preaching like you invented purpose. Meanwhile… you’ve been dodging your own for how long now? Be honest. Not cute-honest. Real…

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  • Breaking Up with the 3rd Dimension (It’s Not Me, It’s You)

    I didn’t plan on leaving the third dimension. I was perfectly fine there… paying bills, overthinking text messages, wondering if Mercury was in retrograde or if people were just emotionally unavailable by nature. But then something shifted. And by shifted, I mean the universe grabbed me by the collar and said, “You ready to stop…

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