emotional boundaries

  • The Quiet That Leaves First

    At first, it looks like silence is weakness.Like absence means loss.Like walking away is the same as giving up. So you stay.You listen to noise.You explain yourself to storms.You call turbulence “connection.” But something strange happens when you finally understand stillness.It doesn’t beg.It doesn’t argue.It doesn’t chase what refuses to be gentle. The louder the…

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  • Don’t Ask Alice-Entry II

    (Headphones on-My Tears Ricochet-Taylor Swift) I used to think walking away meant something had gone wrong.That it required an explanation.That I would feel guilty for it later. None of that happened. What actually happened was simpler.People kept trying to hand me their mess like it was my responsibility to hold it.Their drama. Their spirals. Their…

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